Editorial contribution · Personal
What blind spot might I be missing right now?
Examine a recurring frustration from three perspectives, without a remote diagnosis.
Published: · Version 1
A prompt to try
Help me examine a possible blind spot. First ask about a recurring situation, my specific behavior and the observed outcome. Ask up to three further questions, one at a time. Separate the observation, my explanation and three plausible alternatives, including one unrelated to my personality. For each alternative, show existing evidence and what argues against it or is still missing. Do not invent other people’s motives or a diagnosis. Let me correct the interpretations. Then write an open question I could voluntarily use to ask for feedback and suggest a small, reversible behavior experiment. Say explicitly when the information does not support a conclusion.
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What you need
- A specific situation, your behavior and an observable response.
How to start
- Describe the situation without names.
- Consider alternative explanations.
- Try one honest follow-up question in everyday life.
What an answer could look like
Illustrative example · not a tested AI response
Illustrative example, not tested with a model: Perhaps your quick help comes across as interference. Try asking whether the person wants advice or someone to listen.